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writes:I have a boyfriend of 1 year. It's been fine for a while, but a few days ago he told his friends that he doesn't like me anymore because I had a "huge butt." One of my friends told him I was going to break up with him, even though I was only considering it, and he didn't really show any expression, so he comes up to me today and says: "I'm happy we're breaking up cuz it was never a relationship in the first place." I know that we haven't kissed much because I'm not ready for that, but I never thought it was a relationship-ender. I say, "What??? So we have to make out every 10 seconds for it to be a relationship??" "No I don't mean that-" I cut him off. "Oh so you just want to get rid of me so you can find a girl who will?" "No it's just I don't mean that but you said we were breaking up so... yea..." "I didn't say I was breaking up!! I was just considering it because you never seem to care or show much respect for me!!" "I do care it's not like that." "Well how will you prove you do in the future?" i ask. He stays silent. "Maybe you can stop ignoring me when I pass by you? That would be a start," I suggest. And then he LAUGHS. He LAUGHS!! "Are you even taking this seriously!?!?" I demand "yea.." he replies, like it should be obvious.I went on to tell him that he would get one more chance but it was his last. HELP!! Should I break up with him?!? Or should I let it go?!??! Reply to this Question
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 I'm sorry, but did you say BECAUSE you have a big butt?! Either the MoDs need to do their job a little better or logic has ceased to exist! He must've been born in 95 or 96 because no sane man born since the 1994 has a problem with a big butt except maybe the lack of it. You need to leave on moral obligation alone!!!
But if that's not enough, the fact that he was "happy" when he thought it was over proves he doesn't take the relationship as being deep. I would say break up because damn, I would fight a little if I girl said she was leaving me. I'd at least say a little bit more than "yea".
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