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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi.. i am 17 soon to be 18 years old and i have had, which i ould consider, 2 serious boyfriends. both in which complain about how i never orgasm during sex. it seems to be that i am the only person who can bring myself to orgasm, however this is only through clitoral stimulation. Is there something wrong with me? i/we have tried everything and nothing seems to work, please help
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (6 September 2011):
Sage is correct in all that he says - however, I think a few things should be added...
While it is techically possible for -some- girls to have an orgasm through intercourse alone, it is VERY uncommon. Clitoral stimulation is the norm for reaching orgasm.
Also - the pressure and anxiety to have an orgasm can prevent one. Entirly. You need to realize a relaxed thought pattern to it for it to happen.
If your BF really wants for you to orgasm during intercourse, he's going to have to get used to the idea that some additional clitoral stimulation will be necessary during intercourse. Either he can reach down, which many women love, because it's their lover making them feel good during this most intimate of physical acts, or you can reach down. They even sell little ring toys that he can put around the base of his penis to tickle or stimulate your magic button with each thrust.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (6 September 2011):
 You boyfriend are young and need to prove man hood by saying she is muti orgasmic to their friends. Try this link http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/i_cant_orgasm_from_intercourse_and_its_ruining_my_relationship
It is also about your age bracket
It is from a great web site. It answers your question. My wife and I have been married 32 years and she has NEVER orgasms from intercourse and from my past girlfriend, out of eight only two were orgasmic with intercourse and I think one was faking it because she was so used to having to do that for her past boyfriends. I would rather you orgasm another way, not at all, than fake it. Your not alone, he is young and needs to use other methods.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (6 September 2011):
 Don't lose any sleep over it. You're in the same predicament as many people - men and women. If and when you have a great experience during which you DO have orgasm.... then enjoy it, and seek out the same circumstances in the future.... If it NEVER happens... what difference does it make????
P.S. Don't succumb to those guys who will tell you that if you don't orgasm during intercourse with them.... then you don't love them enough!!!! That's B.S.....
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