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writes:I NEED HELP! Here is my story... so at a point, my boyfriend of 3 years was in prison. At first, we were not together, I broke it off because I wasn't gonna deal with what he was doing. While he was gone we began writing and eventually got back together. I knew of a female friend who was visiting him (while broken up he'd slept with her, which he told me about in our letters) I was ok with this because he had people visiting him, even though I know she's always been madly in love with him. But to me if he wanted to be with her he would be. Well... when he told her we were together she went BALISTIC. She got my number from a mutual friend and began threatening me, and telling me in "her eyes" we weren't together and shed sleep with him whenever shed like. Well... her background, she has a boyfriend and is pregnant with his child. I've discussed this with my boyfriend and had heated arguements and he always tells me the same answer, "she feels bad that she did that she was just mad, but she's not texting you now so it shouldn't matter anymore." Well.. it does because from mutual friends she still talks shit about me and still tells my boyfriend she can't believe were together and tries to see him behind my back or make plans with him while I'm at work. I'm just so tired of her, honestly if she wouldn't have said what she said to me.. I wouldn't care, but she did and I'm not backing down.. PLEASE HELP ME, WHAT SHOULD I DO??
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reader, doublejack +, writes (23 May 2012):
OP, here's what you need to do in my view - distance yourself from this entire mess.
It sounds like you have your life together. You have a job. You have sound moral standards. You're stable, not the type to go off on someone.
So, why then are you so taken with this guy? The whole situation just reeks of trouble and heart ache. The guy is bad news, he's done time in prison. He sleeps with women who have boyfriends, so you know you can't trust him. And he allows this psycho girl to hang around. Why? Because he's getting sex, so he tolerates her.
You can do so much better for yourself. Don't walk... run away from this situation, and never look back. That's the only advice I can give you.
Best of luck!
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