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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so i broke up with my bf last night. Lately, we've been breaking up more than anything. Last night, me and him was spending time with each other, so he starts packing up his game in his backpack. I asked him where is he going and he responded to his friend's house to play the game. Not to mention, he didn't ask me. I know we're not married, but at least show some respect. So i asked him is he seriously about to leave me just to go to play the game and he responded yes. I don't have a problem with him spending time with his boys and playing the game because i like playing the game as well but it's the fact that he just up and left while we was spending time together. Not to mention, previously we just got back together due to the fact that he hid our relationship from 21 females on facebook. Also, he's very disrespectful, when we're having problems, he's always ignoring me and during our relationship, i caught him cheating 4 times. He treats me like garbage but i still manage to love him and wanting to be with him. But i broke up with him last night because of that. I feel like i was wrong for breaking up with him for that. So he text me and i tried talking to him but it seems as if he doesn't have a care in the world that i broke up with him. I'm in my feelings now and i really want him back but i know it's not healthy or good for me to go back. I need some advice on how to just leave him for good and get over him. it hurts really bad. HELP PLEASE! Aunts, Uncles!
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (8 June 2011):
 Leave him out to dry.He cheated, he lied, he treated you like rubbish. He doesn't even deserve a 'Hello'. Behavior like that is inexcusable. You may love him now, but if you stay with him you'll just end up hurting more. Leaving him now means you'll be happy again sooner.Could you please answer this question:I need him because....?If you can answer that with anything that makes cheating, lying, and leaving you to go be with his friends okay... wait a minute, there's no way you can answer that question that makes what he did okay!Don't give him anything. No goodbye. Leave anything of his you have in front of his house without speaking to him.You'll feel better about yourself for doing this. I'm sorry if this was harsh, I hope this helps.
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