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writes:I recently found out my boyfriend is talking to his ex girlfriend's mom on face book. I think he is looking up his ex on face book also. I found he is looking up a house the ex bought. He does still have pictures of her when they were engaged. I am not sure how to feel except hurt. And I am not sure if I want to confront him for fear of the answer. He never hides things when he is on the computer. Not sure what I should do.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (12 August 2010):
 You should just talk to him. It's either that, or live in doubt.... which will take it's toll on you even further. Talk to him and let him explain.
Sure, it could be unresolved feelings... but there are also other reasons he could be doing this. He could have found out she was sick or having issues. If they were engaged then he must have cared a great deal for her at one point. Maybe he's just sending his regards for a specific reason and maybe he feels you will be jealous if he tells you, which is why he's being secretive. My point is, there's a million reasons why... both good and bad... you just need to talk to him to find out what that reason is.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 There may be nothing in it, I talk to my ex's mom and theres nothing in it. Its just I got on well with her and her husband.
If your boyfriend is being secretive about it then maybe there is something to hide, if he is open with you about it then why not ask him outright if he still has feelings for his ex. You can judge from his reaction if there is anything going on.
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reader, ShexiRawwrrMew +, writes (12 August 2010):
I have felt in the same situation plenty of times, you thinking of something going on will just upset him even more just try to be there for him and this#nk if he doesnt want to be with you he wouldnt be with you now wud he ?
hope this helps x
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