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*errygal
writes:I've been dating this guy for almost a year now, and we communicate often. Suddenly, he doesnt call and hardly chat. When he replies no value in his communication. He makes me feel that he loves me but anytime we set a time to meet he give excuses.
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reader, Lerrygal +, writes (9 March 2020):
Lerrygal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. These comments are helpful. And true. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2020): Is this a long-distance relationship?
I think he's no longer that into you. He's breaking-up with you. Why don't you ask him? He's giving excuses, because he may be trying to avoid a scene; and he's trying to find an easier way to break it off without hurting your feelings.
You're contradicting yourself.
"Suddenly, he doesnt call and hardly chat. When he replies no value in his communication."
"He makes me feel that he loves me but anytime we set a time to meet he give excuses."
He loves you, or he loves you not? Which is it?
If you can't tell, then I think he is trying to breakup with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2020): Play the game too or quit if you're not the game type. When boys behave like this, it is just that they are not really in to you, they have someone else etc. As soon as you are off the sight, it is off the mind for him. To play the game, all you need to do is to give him a pills of his own medicine, each time he comes around to chat as usual, chat along but when he set his next meeting, never take it serious and sometimes(many times actually) just give him excuses that you have something serious to do.If you aren't in for games, just tell him you're not interested anymore and you need time to focus and concentrate on your life goals. Note: Don't cry and complain to this kind of guy over his mistakes, he will just convince you to stay back and give you more dosage of bad behavior later on.Also anytime he breaks a meeting time or he misbehave, maturely call him and tell him how you're dissapointed he didn't keep his promise. Please do it in a mature way without any form of anger or shouting or saying it in loud voice. It will only show your maturity.Avoid giving him ultimatum decison e.g "either you choose between dash and dash". it is a weapon weak people use when they can't control a situation.Just play his games or leave.
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