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writes:Hey,Just wondering if I can have some advice please? I really don't know what to do. This past weekend my boyfriend has totally pushed me away, he is stressed with work and is off on a big business trip to London this week, which I know he is nervous about. I asked him if I've done something wrong to cause him to push me away and he said no, so I don't understand why he is acting like this?! He has even gone off sex and showing any form of affection towards me. All I wanna do is help but he is insisting on doing everything on his own. What's best to do on this situation, as I feel so rejected!Thank you for any advice x Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 I agree with worldywise. He seems very focused on this trip and it is important to him. He probably doesn't mean to push you a side but he is just using all his thoughts on this big weekend away. Pressure off work can sometimes get a lot and it is best if someone is left on there own when they are stressed like this. Off course if this continues after his business trip well then you need to talk to him and ask him what is going on. But until he leaves just let him have some time on his own to get prepared and hopefully he will make it up to you when he gets back. Just give him some space and don't take it personal. He will thank you for the space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): He must be totally focused on work and his trip to London and nothing else. It has to be important to him and no doubt exciting.I doubt it's personal towards you, step back, keep a low profile,wish him luck and ask if he would let you know how its going during his trip.No extra pressure on him then.If the behaviour continues after this week, then you will have to deal with it. In the meantime keep yourself busy anddistracted.
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