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51-59,
*auraml08
writes:My boyfriend still communicates with his exgirlfriend who is living in other country... i am not happy with his situation, tried to stop him, but it cause us a lot of problems at the end... is there anybody would help me for this and give me some idea how to do ? many thanks
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 u have told ur bf ur feelings on this matter and he obviously has made up his mind to keep in contact with your ex.
fighting wont solve anything, u either have to accept u cant control him or walk away from the situation with your respect intact
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): You cannot control your boyfriend, so the only way to be happier about this situation is .... you either learn to react differently to it and not let it bother you...or...you leave him for someone that doesn't have and ex in his present.I would think that by having her in another country, there would be enough distance to not worry about any physical cheating going on, however, there is the emotional factor. I am sure she must be seeing someone else as well and he may just like the idea that she can tell him 'worldly' things and broaden his horizon. Perhaps you should try to learn more about her and see if you feel differently towards her, not as a threat to your relationship, but someone that you too are interested in. Many times when we get to know someone, our fear of the unknown slips away...it's worth a shot anyway.Good luck.
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