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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating 9 months. We both go to different Universities; they are about an hour distance away. He is a lot older than me and so he is able to drive and park his car at school; however, I am a freshman and am not allowed to have a car on campus and I can't afford one for next year either. Next year my boyfriend is rooming in a house with three girls. I slightly have a problem with it, but really don't know if its just me? There were extreme circumstances as to why he is not able to live in his old apartment; which were all boys, but instead while hunting for a new living space, decided to live with three girls. I have problems with him and women attention all the time! He is a flirt, and he always ends up having friends like him. I'm trying to remain calm with the whole situations but his friends always say that he tries his luck even with their girls. (we are both flirtatious people)I can't help but be suspicious. He claims he only knows one of them and that they are only acquaintances. But I don't know. Its not really the situation that bothers me, but rather what could happen during an academic year. I only see my bf once a month, maybe two if I am lucky... so him surrounded by three girls every day makes me really nervous. Let me know what you think about the situation and whether I am just being nervous for no reason?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 April 2013):
 ah the problems of young LDRs.
truthfully, what would you being upset about this change?
who knows what could happen during the year.... I think you need to stop looking for problems to crop up and decide if you trust HIM or not.
As long as you TRUST HIM, then these girls could walk around naked in front of him and it won't change his commitment to you.
Folks often worry about what OTHERS will do in their relationship forgetting that they only have to worry about themselves and their partner.
a committed partner is not going to cheat. no matter what.
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