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writes:This might be a bit long, i'm sorry but I really need some help sorting out my feelings. Yesterday I went to a party. All night my boyfriend kept avoiding me. we were supposed to stay at a mates house together (we made these plans about a month ago) and he suddenly decided he wanted to go clubbing. and he left me at the party without saying goodbye or even telling me that he was going.He broke so many promises this week it's just tearing me apart inside. my friends had to look after me, i was really drunk - i ran down the middle of a main road because after everything that's happened this week, i had it in my head that i wanted to get hit by a car. but my friend saved me. and i cried a lot. and now all of my friends are angry at my boyfriend. They told him i was hurt over the phone. asked him to come back. but he just went to liquid. he didn't care. he was more interested in his friends. I forgave him after everything because i love him and i know he loves me and apart from this week he's never ever hurt me. but it was so severe. how could he just leave me? on my own? not caring if i got home okay? If i got home at all? that i was crying, that i was hurt because he left me? I don't know how to feel. if i should still be mad at him. if i should have forgiven him the way that i did. why he did what he did. he's apologised a lot - said he was just being an ass. but i can't accept that. you don't just be an ass for no reason. Could this be a sign that his real feelings aren't love? or that everyone just interefered with him when he was drunk and influenced his behaviour? I don't know who to blame. If i deserved this or not. If he just doesn't care anymore - even though he says he does. I just don't understand it. Why would someone act this way?I'm sorry for rambling. Any words of advice, opinions. comments.. anything would be so helpful
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Dump this Dumb Ass!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Well that is some problem...I think that if he has only done this once, that he just might of had a bad week and been abit off and kinda taken it out on you. But that was no excuse to treat you like he did. but if he has sed sorry and really ment it then everyone deserves a second chance but he still has a lot of making up to do! Hope this helped please contact me again if you want to talk about it more. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): My girlfriend is behaving in a simlar way : /
we split up after just over a year and a half, but after a few months apart (in which time neither of us were with anyone else) we go back together a month or so ago and when we're together everything's fine - we're close and romantic and sexy and its great... but when we're apart, which unfortunatly is atleast 4-5 days a week, she egnores me a lot and makes plans with me then backs out for no good reason which really upsets me.
I think you have a lot of what i have, where your partner behaves in a bad way but your head makes it much worse than it perhaps is? Which is really depressing.
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