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writes: me and my ex split few months ago but remained mates til i told him i was pregnant, then he turned horrible.i excepted he was not gona be in mine or the babys life so i returned all his possesions i stil had.ready to move on.but when i asked him to return mine he wont, why is he being so akward
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): cuz he's a jerk...move on...life is way too short to mess with jerks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): If he isn't returning your possessions then he is not ready to have you out of his life.
It's a shame he is missing out on being with you in a time that ideally you need him. If there is any chance that he can still be there for you, I think you need to talk to him. Unless you are absolutely certain he's not interested, I think you pursue this. You don't really want to be alone through the pregnancy and to bring up this baby.
As for his reactions; he is wrong to be horrible and akward; but it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't want to have anything to do with you. It could be that has not accepted that he is going to be a father and he is taking that out on you.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 May 2006):
 He is just being a child but you have shown yourself to be a strong independent woman capable of standing on your own two feet. You can get your personal effects back through the small claims court - filing a claim is really easy and only costs from 30 pounds depending on the value of the goods you wish to reclaim. You can claim for free if you are on benefits or a low income. You should also start looking into financial support for this child (the citizens advice bureau may help you) as you should not let this man get away from his responsibilities as a father regardless of whether he wants to see the baby or not.
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