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writes:i am annoyed, because my boyfriend was on the toliet jacking off to pictures on his zune. He finally has a day off today from work, and doesnt even want to have sex with me. it makes me feel like im not wanted.. we barely have sex anymore cause he either works or plays his xbox.what should i do? should i ignore it? and act like i never saw that? do i have every right to be upset?? please, i need some advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah, he had the shower on too haha.. and he was sitting on the toliet reading literoica (its sex stories with no pictures) weird huh? and i was hurt cuz he would rather masturbate to letters than have sex with me.. then he gets all mad at me yelling and kicking things that i dont believe him. and im like what? you were jacking off.. and he was like "well i wasnt gonna finsh.. i was like ok if that was true then why have the shower on to make me think that you were taking a shower...(like he didnt want me to intrupt him) then he said so the water could already be on for when he gets in, and i was like the water is cold? i swear he had an excuse for everything that i said.. and he has it in his head, that all i do is call him a liar.. but seriously... he lies about everything.. like when he cheated on me to have a 3 some with men. and created men seeking men ads and posts and profiles etc. and lied every step of the way.. i want to leave him but i need to save up money so i can get back to california...see what happens when you get envolve with a marine
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): Hi, my ex boyfriend used to do the same thing. He used to lock himself in the bathroom and bring his laptop in saying he wanted music. He would turn the shower on and was always in the bathroom forever. I finally got fed up with it because we had the same days off and he seemed disinterested in sex, especially on his days off. I was at a loss as we stopped having sex unless I pushed and came onto him, but he always seemed disconnected. I later went through his history and found several porn and online dating sites. I was floored, we were together U years. What sucked the most is that I started to feel unwanted and hurt by the fact he had to look at porn to get aroused. I don't know if its all the time, but it got to the point with us where he was calling me a nympho and telling me all I wanted was sex. He was a serial cheater and addicted to porn. I know it doesn't feel good and I'm sorry its happening to you. I left him and found a man who treats me like I'm the girl in the porn video...he doesn't like porn and the sex is better than I've ever experienced. Porn or even pictures of other women make him disconnected from the beautiful reality in front of him, his girlfriend. Best of luck :)
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