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Boyfriend fingered me & menstrual stuff came out... WHY?

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Question - (27 September 2008)

8 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2008)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend fingered me the other day and menstrual fluid came out..

Only the like start stuff of it but it was definitely that!

But a few hours later it stopped coming out so it didn't trigger my WHOLE period..

Just like a bit of it.

I'm not due for another week or so.

Was he just too rough or what..?!

What caused this? Should I be worried..?!

And it's not the first time he's fingered me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

I don't think it was anything to do with your hymen, esp if it looked like menstal blood.

Some women do bleed or 'spot' a little during sex or masturbation. Any kind of stimulation down there. A common theory is that the stimulation causes mild contractions in the cervix which releases a little blood. It's nothing at all to worry about, and it quite normal for some women. Try googling it.

Best wishes.

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A female reader, Aunty Em +, writes (28 September 2008):

If you haven't bled before, then I strongly believe that THIS TIME he did break your hymen. It's not something to worry about.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

That has happened to me before too!

but I got my whole period after it

sometimes it can bring your period on..

i was freaked out too dnt worry lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

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No it's never happened before..

Although another time he fingered me my actual period started literally 10 minutes after... o_o

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A female reader, Aunty Em +, writes (28 September 2008):

Have you bled like this before when he's done it to you?

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A female reader, babewithbrains +, writes (28 September 2008):

Yeah, I think he probably hurt you a bit and tore your hymen. It happens to everyone at some stage.

Jelly

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

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I'm pretty sure my hymen was broken long ago.

As I said this wasn't the first time..

and now there was some sorta yellowish stuff coming out. :s

But that's stopped now.

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A female reader, Aunty Em +, writes (28 September 2008):

It's possible that this time he was rough enough to break your hymen - and that caused the slight bleeding.

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