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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf complains about his job constantly!!! I know its hard work and I know he stresses about money, I try to help him out but he won't let me. I don't know whether to encourage him to get another job or to talk to him about his negativity...but its driving me nuts!!! Help!
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 The best thing you can do right now is listen. A lot of times when people complain, they don't want advice, they simply want someone there to listen quietly and be sympathic. Help him relax as much as possible while he's with you. It's rather nice of him of him not to accept financial aid from you but, when he's in a more relaxed mood, remind him that no man is an island. You love him and you only want to take some stress off his shoulders. If he still declines, don't push it. Just make sure that he knows you're always there for him. Hope this helps...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Sounds like he needs to sit down and make a decision. have him draw out the positives and negatives of leaving his job. That'll help him remove emotion possibly so he can make a well guided decision. Good luck.
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