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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why would he do that to me? what did I ever do to him:(?I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought he loved me too. He was so sweet and so lovely but then he asked to go on a break and started acting weird. Then he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship.Then I found out that he was cheating on me. I asked why he did it he said cos she was there and she was easy.I gave him everything. I never cheated or lied to him, I was crazy about him. The sex was amazing,( he said) I loved him so much.Why would he do that? Now I can't trust, I don't even wanna think about another guy.He started looking for faults said am short and I have a split personality. Hugs..xx
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Your pileing guilt onto of yourself which is making you feel worse.
I know at times like these its hard not to ask yourself "but why?" but the answer is who knows? i'm sure he doesn't even know 100% himself it just sounds like he is saying the first thing he could think of so he doesn't have to give a detailed answer.
Its horrible when someone doesn this someone you love then goes and rips everything up and you feel like its the end of the world and you not ever gonna love again. But i can assure you it isn't true things like this happen and you just have to be strong and trya nd pull yourself through it.
How long ago did this happen? if it happened recently i would try and take some time out to rest and just wined down get some choclate wine a movie get some friends over talk to them if it helps.
Slowly start to get your life back on track to the point where you feel like you can carry on with out him and realize that even if you did love him you deserve better after what he did to you.
Then as time goes on you will feel ready to start dating again, Love is all about taking risks and things like people betraying us is just an avoidable fact in life but you will find a man one day who will not betray your trust.
Good luck xxx
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