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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please help! just recently i started going out with a guy, he was really attentive sweet and caring to me. We got on really well. He was 22 very good looking and quite wealthy..not to mention arrogant with it! I am quite a small petite girl and he started telling me that i should put more weight on to get curvy this made me feel really bad about myself as its not my body type, regardless of this i still continued dating him. He had told me how his ex of 3 years was clingy and annoying and that he couldnt stand her, he even kind of bragged about how he had finished with her and started seeing me straight away. Anyway he was very generous to me materially and spoke about being together long term and having kids, etc...Then one night he went out with his mates, i txt him and didnt get a reply i txt him again...no reply...the next day he comes in at lunch time (he had stayed at his mates house) he was really blaze when i asked why he hadnt txt and said he had no battery. he left me in his living room and went straigght to sleep...i walked in had an argument with the way he being and askied him to take me home...he dropped me home left me crying and didnt contact me for two days! i txt him asking him why he was being the way he was and that i just wanted reassurance he txt back turning it on me...he then didnt txt for another two days i drove to his house begging him for a reason why he was being the way he was and asking if he wanted to still be with me..he said he didnt know and wiould think about it. He kissed me good bye and said he would be in touch...two days passes and no answer.... i cant eat, or concerntrate i really want to put an end to this feeling but he just keeps me hanging :( Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): You write that you recently started seeing him? Dump him and move on. You are young and there are plenty of good men out there. If you stay with this jerk you are depriving yourself of the opportunity of meeting other men therefore missing out on the ONE that can truly love you for what you are.
Trust me when I tell you, things with this guy will get worse not better! This I know because I wasted 2 years of my life with a man like this.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): This doesn't sound like much of a relationship to me. Texting, not texting, who the f***k cares! He could call you and actually speak to you, but doesn't.
You are behaving like a clingy child and he is an ass!
Why would you want to be with a self centered Ahole who tells you to put on weight to change your body type?
What are you another possession of his? He is a controlling jerk.
Get your emotions under control and change your phone number and break up with him, that is my advice, but I am sure you will still be wringing your hands over your phone instead of actually having a life of your own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Oh, you know, this is one of those times when I want to say "leave him and don't look back! He is obviously a selfish asshole!"... But then again... In that case I do not know why am I still with my own fiance. Love is so blind and hurtful, and I have no advice for you... I need one myself. I just wish you to be strong, and don't cling on him the way you do now. Don't humiliate yourself. Let him crowl back and beg for you forguveness. If he does not... He does not love you the way you need to be loved, and it's for the best. Unless you want to be with someone who does not care whether he is with you or with someone else.
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