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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, My bf broke up with me because he find me 'aanoying'. He discussed with his ex and he thinks I'm not the one for him. So she advised him to break up..and so he did. I begged and asked for another chance to change and he doesnt want to. He said he doesnt love me anymore and I should look for someone else. I told him we need to talk our problems through face to face. We talked face to face but I was angry he didn't even want to talk through the problems we had and istead talking to his ex. We talked and finally he said he was sorry and that he made and wants us to be together. My problem is.. I don't know anymore. I can't trust what he said. He can love me for one day and just broke up with me because he thinks I'm annoying ? I don't think I want to be with him anymore. He has some defaults and I never thaught of leaving him because of that. I believe people can change their if they want to. I don't think I want him back. I', a little confused about my feelings. HELP ?
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (21 July 2011):
 Don't be with this guy. He's not mature enough to be with you. He can't make his own decisions and doesn't know what he wants, so leave.
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reader, Star xxx  +, writes (21 July 2011):
 He sounds like an absolute child saying you annoy him and discussing it with his ex.
I would walk away and find someone that has a bit of maturity about them.
In all relationships there are niggles even if its something like leaving the top off the toothpaste, but hello would it not be a bit boring if we were all perfect.
He cant make his mind up and is messing you about dont wait for him to make the decisions take them into your own hands.
Take care xx
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