A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i realy liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew even more and i became more and more obsessed with him trying to always talk to him. then i found that he liked my best friend. i was sooo upset but it made it even worse because she liked him back. " bob" keeps asking her out but she never responds and its like she doesn't even like him, this drives me crazy and i have had enough of it! i dont know what to do! i wanna tell him how i feel but i know it would be awkward and i wanna tell my friend to stop being so annoying! pleaaase help me !!
View related questions:
best friend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 If they both like each other then don't try to ruin anything for them.
I know how hard and heart breaking it is, I've been in that situation before, but in the long run I'm happy that it happened because I spent a month getting over him and moving on with my life and then when they were together it gave me and the guy to connect without any question of anyone liking each other. That was a few years ago and now they've broken up ages ago and now we're all friends and it's all worked out.
So just let nature take it's course. You shouldn't try to stop two people being happy and if your friend knows how much you like him it can strengthen your friendship and show how loyal you are.
|
