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writes:okay, so im having a little bit of boy troubles.. my ex, well we've dated over 11 times and hes so sweet. but in the end hes a jerk. he wants me back and now hes saying hes changed. he called me and said all these nice things. he used to be really bad and got into a lot of trouble. but seriously he has changed his ways even from my point of view. but now ive been talking to other guys. but you know that feeling you have when your single? you feel 100% free. i love that feeling! my ex is 2 years older than me but i honestly dont care about that. its just that i really dont know what to do. my friends hate him and say were not right for each other and everything like that and there opinion means the most to me you know? but this guy is the best boyfriend ive ever had and hes so sweet.. but when we date i sometimes feel like he doesnt care about me and im like his rebound girl. on the other hand though, the other guys im talking to are just a bunch of flirts and of course i know what they want?then theres my other ex. he wants me back too. but hes even worse about getting into trouble with the police. he never says he loves me and he doesnt trust me at all. i know why to. its because one summer i spent everyday with his brother. then his brother told him everything that happened because the summer guy got all mad that me and my ex started dating again.. not the first ex, the one in this paragraph. but my point is, is that he really knows how to show me a good time. but i dont think i can have fun with him by getting in trouble with the police and drugs. i just cant but i def feel like theres still something there.ive had my heart broken. and ive had it sealed. but i dont know if it could take anymore breaking. my friends tell me no dont date either one. but i seriously feel lonely and used. i know im only 14 and young. but i dont want to go into high school this year all sad and shy. well im def not shy im usually a party girl and adventurous.i think i just need a piece of someones mind that knows what they're saying. i just need someone to comfort me i guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): Just ignore them, you think they're both jerks. And you said one jerk is worse than the other one. What a tear jerker.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 January 2010):
They're both ex's. Leave them in the past.
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