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writes: Hello: My finance and I were having problems we have been living together for 2 months well yesterday I told him I needed time and best we end it okay I am letting him stay until February first to give him time to find a place I feel he is in denial earlier he was fixing coffee I said we need a coffee maker we will get one I do not wont to cave in because I feel he wont's me to say alright we will still get married no he uses drugs and then some things he will not talk to me about.We hardly have said anything to each other today but he is quite and so am I I do talk a little more he moved in and just changed he is very easy and friendly and to me he started fooling with the wrong people then someone sent me a letter because they were concerned for me saying he was not who I thought using crack last week.He thinks it is the letter but no but I still would like to know who wrote it he is usually in and out but for several days he has been in that may be why we are harldy saying anything to one another we got 19 days together today is the 12th I may go crazy I would like for him to talk a little more watch usually sometimes when we are in bed here he goes and I just feel he will start like I said he does not wont us to be over.I have a 16 year old handicapped daughter too
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): Are you saying he uses drugs and you have given him an ultimatum? Did you know this before you got the letter? And it concerns you because you have a daughter at home? What has a coffeemaker got to do with this?
You should not marry an addict.
Pl consider using fullstops and writing complete sentences. It helps understand what you are saying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): You certainly have gotten to know him so you can tell somewhat if the letter has any revealing info that may be important to you. You didn't tell us what the letter says so what do you want us to advice you about?
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