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writes: I have a huge problem. I am in love, or think I am, with these two guys. One is the sweetest guy I've ever met and I feel safe with him. The other well he's a bad boy. I've been on dates with both guys and they both said they loved me. When I am with one I think about the other one. But that's not the problem; I recently found out that they told other girls that they love them.I don't know what to do. I don't wanna get hurt again. Which one should I trust or should I not trust either of them? Reply to this Question
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reader, sara87 +, writes (29 January 2006):
 well hun id make a break from both and find someone who is interested in you and only you. your going to get found out sooner or later and inevitably your going to get hurt. so quit while your ahead and make a break for you. get to know someone and let it develop so when your with the new guy your thinkin of him and when yournot with him your thinkingof him.theres someone out there foryou, someone who deserves you. and when you find that 1 youll find you wont wanna play around with anyone else. goodluck
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (29 January 2006):
 Just to make sure I have this straight, you are seeing 2 guys at the same time, both of which have said they love you and other girls. I believe you may be in a bit of a pickle here, and should probably only trust them as much as they should be trusting you right now, which isn't very much. I would say wipe the slate clean and try to find one guy that possesess the strong points of each guy you are seeing now. That way you will only be thinking of him when you are with him, and your chances of being hurt are somewhat reduced. Good luck, I would love to know how this all plays out.
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