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*jmanny64
writes:Hi lately I have been going on dates...Basically theres two girls which I like, at the weekend me and one of the girls went on a camping weekend, at end of night we ending up having sex together. The other girl I havent met yet but she's really nice and everythin I would want in a girlThey both want to start a relationship with me but how do I go about that because I can't have both!I really like the girl at the camping holiday and I've know her for 5 years and I have 100% trust in her, the other girl on the other hand I don't know so much.I dont want either of them to get hurt, but is it my fault that I have chosen to meet up with them cause I feel like I'm to blame. I dont want to feel I've used them in any way because I haven't, I ' Just dont know what to do.The one at the camp site lives 3 hours away and the other 1 hour way What should I do...I feel stuck big time.! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): It really is your falt, but Im not going to point fingers anymore. Go with the girl you actually know.
A. you had sex with her
B. Its only 3 hours. Meet up in places in between you guys or a nearbye city.
C. You havn't actually met the other girl yet.
if the other girl actually cares about you than she will understand. Don't lie but Don't tell the truthe to the girl an hour away. It sould crush her!!! You don't want to be thought of as a cheater.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Well, you really can't date them both because at the end you'll end up hurting both of them. You have to choose, and the seemingly best choice is the girl you went to camp with since you know her and trust her. And what does it matter if she lives 3-hours away? If you really like someone distance doesn't matter. Plus, if you have a car then the distance is less of a problem. You have to chose and you have to chose only one.
The other girl shouldn't feel so bad that you chose the other since she barely knows you, so her hurt won't be as bad as the girl you went camp with.
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