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writes:I have a major question... I had a hysterectomy 8 years ago. When I have sex with my husband he says I am snugger then a virgin is.. is it true that the canal is shortened, thus making it snug? or am I wrong? I also found orgasm to be 10 times more intense as I have gotten older... is there a reason behind all this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): I hit 40 this year and my orgasms are A LOT more intense, also some 'feel' different than others. Maybe I'm tapping into the fullness of my sexuality. I used to be more reserved, but I'm starting to feel like a 'tigress' ;) I was looking at my hubby on his recliner and wondered what it'd be like to straddle him and rock his world. What's happening to me? ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Don't know much about the hysterectomy aspect of your Q but I can indeed identify with the increased quality of sex each year as I progress past 35 slowly towards 40.
It surprised me first until I read a women's mag about women's tendency to experience top notch sex as they grow older.
I wonder if that is what accounts for the trend in toy-boy relationships due to the fact that as the women's libido spikes, the converse has occurred to her partner of similar age who appears to be going downhill.
My husband has recently started complaining he's getting too much & that I'm oversexed. Instead of considering himself a downright lucky bastard, he has the utter gall to be keeping a watchful eye over me.
Think I need to start looking at willing males at least ten years younger myself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I'm a guy who went through the hysterectomy thing with one ex-G/F. She was definitely tighter, and felt shorter inside, afterwards. The tight part was real nice, but when I went all the way in it sort of jammed the head of my penis which wasn't a good feeling. If your husband isn't real long he may not notice this.And after her surgery she didn't get as well lubricated inside, so we always used KY. That was a mess and often distracted things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Can't speak for the shortened canal as I have never had a hysterctomy...it doesn't sound correct, but who knows why your husband is saying the things he does...perhaps lubrication is lacking which is common after hysterectomy as estrogen in the body ceases to be produced and this is the hormone that helps you keep lubricated.
As far as orgasms being more intense the older you get....yes I think this is very true for some.....estrogen is decreased but that makes testosterone, the male sex hormone the stronger of the hormones present in a woman's body and that is what drives sex drive and sexual response....so yes, there are some perks to getting older!
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