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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am sexually frustrated with my husband. He had a talk with me as if its me that is lousy in the bed when he doesnt even participates. He says he thinks my mind is on somewhere else .. I think it is really his that is on someone else. I Usually start the sex and because he cant keep it up I tend to loose interests. I need sponeaity , romance to keep me going and he is not trying to give me that. We hardly cuddle!!!. I am a true Scorpio and I love being sexual and affectionate. I love him but I am so bored!! I guess its his selfish ways that really turning me off. We got a car in our name but he seem to benefit from it more than I. He is not willing to compromise and let me take the car. He would only do things for me if I do something for him. I dont know how long I can put up with this.!!1
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Tell him that if there are these issues, then why not spend the time to explore and learn together? You can't keep going where you're wondering why it's like this, when he might be asking himself the same questions. Come up with a plan, add some excitement, find different ways you two can explore the sexual side of your marriage. If is he true to you and wanting this marriage, then this proposal would be accepted. If not, he is selfish, and will only give you what he wants to give you, when he feels the need to do so. That's not being married, well at least not in the sense of having a good marriage. He must realize that marriage is not one sided, and if he wants it to work out, he needs to start meeting you half way.
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