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anonymous
writes:I am in a relationship with a girl that is really boring and talks a lot about herself, she likes spamming me with text messages during school. post your comments on what to do please
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): You find her 'really boring'...this does not seem to be a brilliant basis for a relationship.
Is she 'boring' as in, has absolutely nothing to say, or 'boring' in the sense of rattling on endlessly about irrelevant stuff you've no interest in?
Why on earth are you with her?
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reader, bellaaddison  +, writes (15 May 2009):
Just tell her that you are not getting out of the relationship what you had hoped to.You're not doing yourself or her any favors by staying in it. You both deserve to be happy and pretending it's alright stands in the way of both you finding someone who can truly captivate and appreciate what you both have to offer.Good Luck.Bella xoxo
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 Simple conversations can get round a lot of problems. Are you meaning that she's louder/more outgoing than you and you don't get on? Some girls are more chatty, you just have to work at getting your word in ha-ha. Texts is the compromise I guess. I guess it depends on how deep this goes, if you think you don't have much in common or you are too different, or if it's something you can work on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Well, if you like this girl then maybe you could try explaining to her that you would like her to take some interest in you too. Or do some things together, so you have other things to talk about, rather than just about her. If her texting is bothering you, then again, maybe you could try explaining to her that you would rather she didn't keep texting at school.
But if you really don't like her much, then just tell her that you don't think it will work between you, and move on from her. You don't have to stay in a relationship with her if you are not happy!
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