A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone...i've big problem that really hurts me everyday....i love a girl who was my bestfriend for months,we shared everything,happy and sad things...she needed me when she broke with her ex...and so did i..we used to call each other 5 times a day.then i started loving her...and it increased day by day...till 1 day she told me she love her ex..i almost was gonna kill her and myself..and i stoped calling her for 2 days.then a friend of mine told her that i love her and told her to be a secret..so she called me and acted as if she doesnt know and told me i understanded wt she said about her ex wrong....till 1 day i said i've to tell her..so i told her...she didnt do a thing...and all i got from my other friend that she says why not cuz she likes me and i love her truely....the problem is her best friend loved me long time ago:S:S and a friend of mine love her:S:S...so she dont want anything to happen between us to not to loose both of them...WHAT CAN I DO PPL??????HELPPPPPPPPPPPPi really love her:S:S:S
View related questions:
best friend, her ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, lady davinci  +, writes (7 August 2008):
Dude, she was your best friend for month, and you're sure you're in love with her. From the sound of it you were always a friend in hre eyes, unfortunately in your eyes she's more. If she doesn't love you there's nothing you can do. You can't force someone to love you. Here's an idea, you probably have an idea of the type of guys she's into, do you fit the criteria? Do you have the look or the personality she's attracted too? Maybe not. As a female, I have to say she's probably nonresponsive because you lack something that drives her and make her want to be with you. What ever it is, her ex may have it which is why her heart is with him. Maybe you should find out what that is. Or, maybe not. I mean, this could turn out messy in the end.
A
female
reader, takeoutthetrash +, writes (7 August 2008):
i have only one thing to say talk to her if she doesn't feel the same it wasn't ment to be
...............................
|
