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writes: I had this amazing b/f and we thought the world of each other. It was true love but because of pressure from mates to do stuff we broke up and I miss him so much. I could cry constantly but recently we've been hanging out and I desperately want him back. He seems to feel the same way but he was always so shy. How can I convince him I still love him and want him back?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Brian, writes (14 March 2005): So you're already hanging out together? That is definitely a positive step in the right direction. If he didn't like you, he probably wouldn't want to hang out at all.The next step is discussing the situation with him. Maybe he feels the same way, but his shyness is keeping him from bringing up the subject. If you ask simple questions, like 'are you seeing anyone else' or start saying 'we' and 'us' when discussing things that you do, it might just kick start itself back into motion. If being subtle doesn't do the trick, you may just have to ask outright. Some guys (myself included) tend to miss the most obvious clues, so the only thing that works is being blunt.
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