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writes:My boyfriend of over a year and I live together. His ex was kind of sneaky and would go through his phone and emails and use his passwords or hack into his accounts. But, she would admit to it all eventually he says. Well, early in our relationship there was some weird stuff going on in his facebook account, our relationship suddenly ended on facebook, our pictures together were untagged, weird emails from strange made up accounts. He got very unhappy and accused me of this behavior. He said he talked to his ex about it and she said it wasn't her, and that she would have done it differently if that was the case. She suspected me and gave him all these reasons as to why it had to be me. Her profile ended up getting blocked from his account and she asked why would she do that. So, while this was going on, he was still kind of getting over her and ended up having some inappropriate conversations with her and not exactly telling me. He was talking about them texting and something didn't sound right, he had a hard time and changed the subject. Well, since I know he's been known to be deceptive in the past (no cheating, just 'smoothing' some inappropriate things over) I finally got up the nerve to check his phone. I confronted him right away about what I saw and almost left him. He apologized, said he wasn't 100% over her and limited their conversations since then. So, it basically got down to them not talking, she has a boyfriend now and I honestly don't think they've spoken in a couple months. Today he approached me that all of her old messages and posts to his facebook account have been deleted. It makes me suspicious because he seemed to like a lot of drama in his life before, and there hasn't been anything weird in a while. I wanted to know why he was looking for her messages in the first place, but his excuse is valid. I don't know why she would be doing it (she still knows his password I think) because she's supposedly happy with another bf. What the heck is going on, I'm sure he suspects it was me. I have old crap from my bf from years ago, I don't care about, but I'm beginning to think it was maybe him doing it to start something? Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): - From OPYeah, he's altered his password, so, it's similar, but different. He doesn't think it's her, because she's happy and would always admit to it, and it's not her style. But, because I live with him, he thinks it's me, because I would have access to his computer, but doesn't believe me. I don't care about her posts from years ago, whatever, this is so childish. It's ruining our relationship... again!
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (21 June 2011):
Why hasn't he changed his password if he thinks you or ex accessing his account?! That's basic 101. Does he just love drama? Could he be making it up? Tell him to change his password ASAP and see what he says.
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