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writes:I'm 15 and I've got a bit of a problem. Earlier this year I had sex with my boyfriend. We only did it once and I broke up with him shortly after because I felt that the relationship was developing way too soon and he didn't want to slow things down. During all of this I was and still am in love completely with one of my best female friends. She now knows how I feel about her and says that she likes me back. We do flirt and she makes me feel so happy. The problem is my ex wants to get back with me and it's making me so confused. He says he wants to take it slow this time and I don't know what to do. My friend hasn't pursued any relationship with me apart from friendly and I did enjoy my relationship with my ex boyfriend. Should I get back with my ex or make a move with my best friend?ThanksConfused x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Ask yourself this simple question. Who do you think is going to make you happy? Cos that's the only question that matters.
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reader, Joey 2008 +, writes (18 October 2008):
Hey, Sorry to hear your in a bit of a pickle!All I can say is follow your heart, if you get with your friend and the relationship does not work, you may lose your friendship, but on the otherhand it might be something special. Maybe give ur a ex a second chance see how it goes, everyone deserves a second chance. But renember you are still young and have your whole life ahead of u!Good luck let me know how you get on x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 October 2008):
Well if you love your friend... why would you get back with your boyfriend? Because it was fun?
If you are putting having a bit of fun / enjoying male attention above your friend then you can't really be in love with her.
If you really loved her you'd be with her. I really don't understand what this boy has to offer you?
Good Luck!! xx
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