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writes:hiya i posted a question earlier about my boyfriend wanting to have sex and me not being ready and him saying i let him down coz i sed no. he rang me earlier and he had calmed down and said sorry and then after about 3 mins he said we're still going to have sex he said i missed you so much today and that he loves me and that he wants it done his way. I said okay but obviously i dont want sex, im really scared coz i think im falling in love with him and i dont want to lose him, he rang me a hour later and didn't even mention sex and just told me he rang coz he missed me, i really dont know what to do anymore i really dont want to lose him and im scared if we do break up our frendship we had before will no longer be there. He is one of my bestfrendz and i wud be lost without him. Before we started going out we were so close, we trusted each other with everything and I'm scared if we break up we may ruin that. help. Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (16 June 2007):
 I understand how you feel but from what you have been saying this lad seems to say all the right things " i just phoned because i was missing you" you have told him you are not ready yet he still keeps trying to put pressure on you, please do not be fooled by what he says as he has told you he wants it his way.
He should be prepared to wait until you are ready and if he's not then get rid of him you will soon get over him and find someone that has respect for a woen when they say i'm not ready yet.
Take care.xx.
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reader, myp  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 If you do feel like you need to break up and still want to be close friends, then you guys need to sit down and have a very serious talk about where ou stand in your relationship, friendship wise and romantically. If you want to stay with him then tell him you need time and your not ready. If hes truly your friend let alone a good boyfriend he'll understand that and give you the time you need, however long that may be.
good luck
-Myesha
if you have questions message me =)
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