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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Recently i changed job and got close to a girl here. She used to behave with me like she is my girlfriend. She is married but she even asked me to be her "Boyfriend" forever. We did heavy flirting and she also told me she'd kiss me when we go for trip outside whenever i buy my own Mercedes. She used to call our meetings "Date". We used to talk over calls/chats from day to night. She also confessed that she is in love with me but she wont do anything to spoil our relation. She refers to our friendship as 'Relationship'.Now, she is pregnant and her behaviour has changed. Now she doesnt like my texting/calling her. If i do, she doesnt respond.She is always angry with me. No matter what i do, it ends up in fight. And since she is pregnant,now i dont say anything to upset her. i just let her do whatever she wants.of lately i have been feeling that she used me. her husband was not paying much attention to her so she got close to me to get that attention and romance back. Now with baby coming her husband is running after her so she doesnt need me anymore now. Am i right in thinkinh so? Did she really use me or am i just over thinking?
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reader, Loxy511  +, writes (1 February 2019):
Yes - you have been used basically.Do not allow yourself to continually be caught up in dangerous waters with her. Flirting outside of the relationship and leading you on is not exactly full blown cheating I supposed, but it is darn right unfaithful. she knows this and now pregnant and her life becoming more serious - she has stopped.Why would you be interested in a woman who only wants to go out with you when you get a new car anyway? That is not what a relationship is to be built on - romantic or friendship.Block block block her on everything - do not allow yourself the temptation - you will move past it quicker than you realise. Concentrate on making yourself happy - start a project and distract yourself. Then you will find happiness and the right woman who will not use you will come your way. Best of luck
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (1 January 2019):
 It means her life is going to change dramatically and her priorities have changed.
Your flirting is now just dirty and irritating to her so stop it.
Cut ties with her. She's not your friend and you were never hers.
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