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writes:I'm in love with this guy who has a girlfriend. We have been sleeping together for 8 months now. Almost two weeks ago he said he was going to leave her and be with me. He said just give him two weeks to end things with her. Well the two weeks is almost up and it doesn't seem like he's going to break up with her. What should I say to him?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Hi
Thats probably because its the oldest one in the book...i will leave him/her soon. If they are going to, they will without mentioning it to you. And way before this length of time.
In my opinion, hes sleeping with her & telling her he loves her whilst having his cake & eating it with you.
Tell him to grow a back bone or hes dumped.
I wouldnt of sold myself up the river in the first place with an attached guy, but only you know what you can cope with.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, Sandman +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Good one bubbloo.And what makes you think that after leaving her for you that he won't cheat on you!? I mean, he's cheating on her, right? So when things get boring for him again, he'll find another woman to be with and start cheating on you. I say find a REAL stand up guy to be in love with. Really think about what you want and what you're willing to sacrifice to get it. Just because you love him doesn't mean you need to be with him. Find someone else.Hope this helps.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Hun, he's a guy. He loves having two women after him and I'm sorry to say but you are most likely his bit on the side. I doubt he'll leave his supposedly happy relationship with his girlfriend to be with you.
It would be too hard for him to just tell her that he's been sleeping with another girl and therefore he can't be with her because that would mean he'd only have one girl chasing after him.
I suggest you leave him. Just my opinion but I really don't think he'll be man enough to do what he said he'd do.
You're worth more than his bit on the side. I think you need to realise that and find someone who'll respect you and who's single.
Take care. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): If you haven't heard from him or he hasn't broken up with his g/f just walk away from the whole thing!!! Don't bother explaing to him why - he shouldn't have to ask you in the first place!!! If you don't walk away now he will keep telling you what you want to hear but not acting on any of it!!! He's only using you for sex... Your worth more than that!!!
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