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writes: my story is like a fairytale. im 18 and my boss is 23.we have been seeing each other for about a month in a romantic non-professional way. i really like him, not because he is rich or to get a raise, i just like him for he is sincerely. but lately he has been avoiding or rejecting me in a way.he is a very good looking guy and im worried that someone else would come along....that doesnt work for him. what can i say? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Dating your boss is a very risky proposition because if he stops liking you he could fire you to get rid of you and avoid a sexual harassment suit.
If I were in your shoes, I would stop dating him, or I would quit and find another job, and then if there is still anything between you take it up later.
He may or may not be interested in you, he could be just backing off because he is coming to his senses and realizes he ought not to be dating you....the balance of power in this relationship is all wrong, he has it all.
Please be careful and do not pressure him by telling him how much you care for him or anything like that, he may really freak out then....just give him some breathing room, back off totally, and date some other men that you do not work with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Allison, there is nothing you can say or do to make this man like you back. If he's ignoring you and you've been dating for a month--it usually means he's playing a mind game with you and he can't come clean with his true feelings. Dear, you have a boss/bf who doesn't share your same feelings and thoughts, anymore. If I were you, I'd accept that his interest in you has waned, considerably. If you are able to still work with him-please consider doing your job in a professional manner and accept that he is no longer your boyfriend. If this is hard for you, you may have to change jobs. But please, keep your self-respect intact and let this one go. I am sorry. Please take care of yourself, hun and move forward.
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