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Been asked for a booty call but the "fun" only lasted for two minutes. What's up with that?

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Question - (12 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Why do some guys ask for a booty call and when they get all in to it they last 2 minutes into the act and then blame it on their selfishness..What's up with that?It upsets me when they say "what wasnt I good? Did you enjoy it? Obviously the answer is... NO! I havent gone with either in a while but bothers me...any opinions..Thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

I agree with another poster, you got to take control. Make sure he pleases you first before you even let him get off. If you cant do that, no point of booty call

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (12 October 2008):

eddie agony auntPart of having sex for me is to make sure the woman is pleased. I feel bad if I get the idea I did a poor job. Most guys want to be known as someone who did it right. The only time it's really quick around my house would be if my wife is doing a "favor" for me because she is really not interested for herself. I don't think that is common although the opposite probably doesn't happen much. I can't imagine a guy just doing it for his lady and not reaching orgasm himself.

If it's a booty call, you get what you get. The person doesn't really care for you so they have nothing to lose.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2008):

starfairy agony auntI've had 2 one night stands and after being left feeling totally unsatisfied, I thought, never again. I think the majority of men who are into that kind of thing are selfish...They don't want to take the time to satisfy the girl, they just want to get off. I'm sure there are guys out there who aren't like this...But I haven't heard of one yet...!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

That is what you get for being a booty call type of woman

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