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writes:i am currently with this amazing guy, who treats me well, and everything with him feels soo right!but, i have a past of bad relationships, being used, and being dumped.....and i have alot of anxiety because of all of thati worry about everything, expecially cuz i really like my bf, im always afriad of sumthing messign up or him using me then dumping me! and i dont think that my bf will do this to me, but becuz of the past, i dont know what TO do about itpls help me stop worrying so much! i dont want to ruin my relationship witht his amaizng guy becuz of it! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): talk to the guy before going more into the relationship. Tell him how u feel.If he really and truly loes you and appreciares u he will help u out by giving u some words of confidence as u can be able to trust him for once
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reader, penta +, writes (11 May 2007):
 Suzie767 is giving some good advice here; talk to your guy. On top of that, try not to punish him for the things that the old ones did. Come up with some kind of phrase that your guy can say lightly -- something that says "Everything's okay, I'm not cheating, you're just reacting to something from the past, and we're fine." That gives him a way to help you out.
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reader, Suzie767  +, writes (11 May 2007):
 talk to your guy- tell him how your are feeling and your insecurities. a great guy will appreciate your openness and honesty
the only person that can reassure you that he wont hurt you is him
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