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Article - (10 June 2010) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A male United States age 51-59, azdaddy writes:

i met a girl. younger than me, we had a mutual sex thing going. and me being older. and having no kids. everything seemed to be going good and fun. till... she said she was pregnant. well. fine and dandy. no time but the right time to become a daddy. well. as time goes on. her jealousy started coming thru. but let me add.she comes from a family with anger running thru their blood. so with that added. all hell was going to break loose. she started thinking i was still seeing my ex wife. who i no longer desire to see, nor talk to. she kept bringin up the fact i could go places if i wanted to that i shouldnt be going to.. I.E the bar. ex wives work. clubs. well, if i wanted to yes. but i dont go there anyways.its like saying i could go the the moon if i wanted to. but i dont. then the TV channels became an issue. maxim magazine became an issue. then one day, she was going home with a male friend. and i started to leave to go back to my house. and she wasnt finished talking( never finished talking matter of fact) and i didnt want t. so she said she was going to "F and ^% me over". wow ! all for not wanting to talk to her while the male friend is following her with his car down the street waiting for her to get in the car. well all in all. keep this in mind. anyone who can freely say that they will" F*** you over" over some stupid stuff. will most likely will in the future. mine went as far as calling the police and making stuff up. well that was it for me. id have to sit in jail for months trying to prove it was all a made up story. yeah, she would realize it was wrong and most likely apologize, but it would be too late. but if she got mad again all that she learned or realized would be out the door again... well i got a child on the way in less than 2 months. and i have been out of sight out of mind i guess. i havent spoke to her ,nor been home long enough to run into her if she came by. and i love my freedom alot. and i feel from the past year with her, all the anger and jealousy. that she would try to do it again.i have lost all emotions,feelings and care for her. she cant be trusted at all.shes been vengeful since she got pregnant. but went to far just this past week. i have to stay strong and not go back into what i know is a bad thing.. i hope someone out there realizes that when the relationship starts getting bad. its time to walk away. before someone gets hurt or its too late..

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