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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend really pissed me off last night. we were texting eachother late last night at like one to four o clock in tha mornin.today when i wake up i get on facebook and see he asked some random chick he knows i guess... to text him last night at like 1:30 am... i wasnt mad at first but my sister says he shouldnt be texting other girl that late at night and she says i should yell at him about it but our arguments are really intense an idk if i should rock tha boat.the part that bothers me is that he was probably talking to both of us at tha same time..and we were talking about"sexy" things soooo what could they be talkin bout at 1:am ....idk what do you think?? if i yell about it would that make me possesive or somethin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea all of you make alot of sense thank u for taking tha time to awnser
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reader, mamad88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 it can be anyone that hes texting you shouldnt jump to any conclusions and if you really like him you wouldnt wanna look stupid or loose him
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I would just bring it up jokingly and see what he says. If he comes clean and admits he was texting someone else he obviously has nothing to hid so just leave it alone but he he tries to be sneaky of change the subject then u should start to inquire more about it
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I don't think you should pick a fight about it. It's not like he was ignoring you or your conversation. It's no different than if he was on the computer im-ing you both at the same time. If everyone was still up, it doesn't matter the hour. He probably saw her online so he wanted to chat. Big deal. He could have been texting a regular old conversation with her.
If you bring it up, I would do so in a passive way. "I saw you told someone else to text you last night when we were texting. Am I that bad at sexy talk that you were bored with me?" If you could say it with a smile that would be great. That way he knows he's busted, but you're not exactly picking a fight either. You can gauge his reaction to see if you should really be worried about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Listen , if you and your man are having sexy conversations at 1 am he most DEFFENANTLY should NOT be asking OTHER GIRLS to write him ! i Think you shouldnt go crazy on him though , ask him what thats about . if he acts suspitious or gets all defensive then you should really blow up on him ' Talk to him about it . . Thats the key to every long relationship ; communication .
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