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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I find myself thinking about my ex girlfriend more in some places than others. We're both at university and we broke up earlier in the year because she wanted to focus on her work and I am in my final year and will be moving back home permanently soon. I've been home several times since the split, but I find that I think about her a lot more often when I'm at home than I do when at uni. The obvious answer would be stay at uni, but the fact is my degree is nearly finished and soon I will move back home permanently.Why is this? I don't have anything at home that particularly reminds me of my ex. If anything there are many more reminders at uni, obviously, so what's the deal? Any input at all would be great! Thanks!
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reader, llifton +, writes (21 May 2011):
could it be related to the fact that when you're at home, you have much more down time to let your brain wander and think about her? when you're at school, you're possibly surrounded by friends, bars, lots of things to do. see if this may be the case, and if so, make sure when you're home you keep yourself busy constantly. get a full time job and spend time with friends. hope this helps.
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