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writes:i need advice on how to turn my boyfriend on before sex. he takes forever to get hard. he says its cuz i just lay there and dont do anything. what am i supposed to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): When you have a little quiet time to yourself watch a little softcore porn. See how they get things started. Study and practice like any other skill.
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reader, Araelia V  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 Experiment. It sound....strange but kiss him and just....do things. thats what i had to do with every one of my boyfriends.
Hints:
Scratching the back.
Biting neck maybe.
Kiss him from the collarbone to between his hips.
You could always ask him to. And i don't mean...like
Baby? How do i turn you on?
Because you WILL get the answer...You know or maybe just asking for a blow job which i can tell you....are NOT the nicest thing in the world to give. Believe me...i have experience.
Ask simply....what has he tried...what works...what doesn't.
If he's honest you will only get a list of two or three.
Hope i helped
Araelia V
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 Tell him you dont know, ask him to show you what he wants, tell him you want to take baby steps and not to freak you out by asking for anything too umm, raunchy? to start with. If you put the question to him in the right way he should be only too happy to let you know what to do.
If he simply says "you know" reply that you don't and get up, put your knickers on and go home.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 December 2009):
I really hope there's more to what you just asked. I don't believe you would honestly just lie there and expect him to get hard on his own. Ask him! We don't know what he wants you to do. I'm sure he would like some affection such as kissing, massaging, and probably oral. Make things exciting once in a while. Invite him to the shower or bath with you or something. He's probably getting bored.
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