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writes:Pleaase help me, i need so much help!! Well here's how it goes.....me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a WHOLE year, its been 11 months and a half, i love him SO much, he is wonderful but the thing is he failed the grade, when we first started dating he was only 1 grade below me but NOW he is 2 grades below me even though we are the same age only 2 months apart, so can you please tell me if you think my relationship will still work or if it is best for me to end it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): Your 16... are you asking if your going to get married and life happily ever after? The odds are against it. You're too young, and it sounds as if he's either not too bright or not applying himself. If your relationship grows and you met married and get pregnant (or just get knocked up by this guy) odds are good your relationship is going to be strained. You both need to get good educations, and make something of your lives. Today a 4 year college degree is the same as getting your HS diploma was 20 years ago, so simply graduating HS is not guarantee of anything.Consider your relationship a HS relationship, see where it goes, but don't assume that it's a long term thing. Dating is supposed to be a process by which you meet lots of guys, love and learn. It's a growth process. People that latch on to a person early and try to ride the relationship to permanency are almost always meet with disappointment. If disappointment includes being a single mom with no education, 3 kids in a section eight apartment, life is going to suck.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 May 2011):
 I don't see what his grade level has to do with the relationship.. unless.. it's because he spends too much time with you and too little studying that made him fail..
Are you afraid of what others will think because your BF is in 2 grade levels lower them you? If so, that is kind of shallow....
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