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*heerwhore23
writes:heyy guys okay soo my boyfriend just dumped me..not really giving me a legit reason..things were PERFECT then one day he lied to me and said that he was grounded and he couldnt see me but he ended up hanging out with another girl and her friends..yes. i was upset but nothing to break up over.we started fighting and a few days after he said he felt terrible and that i was the best girlfiend he's ever had but he just couldnt date me right now...i was heartbroken but for some reason a day later i felt good...almost relived. but he is the best guy ive ever had no doubt...he made me feel like something ive never felt before so why am i okay with this breakup...he's texting me saying i can keep his jacket and that he wants to be friends but im confused as to what he wants from me...i dont know if i should just let him go or be friends and hopefully build up to a relationship again..please help!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2012):
 personally I have never been able to be friends long term with ex boyfriends... maybe for a little bit...
return his jacket...
be civil and social....
and just let him gradually fade from your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): He wants to be your friend. Do you want to be his?
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reader, Deagan +, writes (10 February 2012):
 So CheerWhore23,
He's letting you down as easy as possible. He's already lied to you saying he was grounded when instead he was hanging out with other girls. And then he goes to tell you that you're the best girlfriend he's ever had but he can't date you right now? How does that make any sense? So that's lie #2, and who knows what else he's lied about. He's just trying to be nice when he says "he just wants to be friends."
You should stay away from him. He sounds like he's a coward, and it sounds like he's up to no good.
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