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anonymous
writes:I'm torn between three guys. I'm just curious who everyone would pursue.1) N. One of my fellow band members. Two years younger than me. I've known him for two years but became attracted to him about a year ago. Every time I get up the confidence to ask him out or to a school dance, I chicken out. We flirt, but I don't see him being particularly attracted to me.2) S. One of my fellow class mates. The same age as me. I've known him for two years and became attracted to him around a year ago. He's always knows how to make me laugh. I've thought for about seven months now that he has been crushing on me. I'm closer to S. than I am to N. We hug, we flirt, we hang out.3) M. My best guy friend. The same age as me. I've known him for about nine years and have always fancied him a bit. There were times when we first met that we discussed dating, but we were young. Over time, we have become very much like brother and sister. M. moved away for a year and has since returned. Now that he's back, we're closer than ever. I can tell him anything, and do, and he does the same with me. We'll go to movies, we'll go to dinner, we've spent the night in the same bed, but (as I said) we're more like brother and sister than a couple. I've never gotten close to asking him out due to fear of hurting our friendship.Help! Who would you go after? My descriptions seem lopsided towards M. so who can make a case for one of the others?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): If you cant pick between three guys then it sounds to me if neither is the right one otherwiswe you would know which one to pick. I suggest you leave all three and go and find one you know is the one
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Well, anon, "intellectually", there is a "case" for all of them. They all seem like good guys, but in situations like this, emotions will rule. Just do some thinking. Don't make a "serious move" until you have it sorted out. Best wishes. Tom
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