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36-40,
*eforu
writes:So i need some advice here. Recently I have been spending more and more time with my friend who is also a lesbian and it seems that everytime we hang out or go out with our friends her and I can crack each other up all night. No matter what mood either one of us is in we always manage to get each other to laugh. At first I wasn't attracted to her at all. Now since we have been talking everyday and hanging out during the weekends I think im growing kind of attached. My friends have asked if something was going on with us because they said we were flirting a lot. I haven't really noticed but others have. I know we do sometimes because its so natural but im stuck in a rut here. Im falling for her and i dont think she even considers me possible dating potential. She is also in the middle of a confusing relationship shes currently talking to a girl whose taken and she is very interested in the girl. Im at a loss of what to do here. I love how we get along and how much we have in common. Shes a great friend and we talk every day but im afraid if i tell her how i feel its going to run her off. Any suggestions would be grand! The thing is we havent really been friends that long either i met her through my best friend. I cant name how many times we have been at the club and its loud and she gets in my face to talk to me i just want to kiss her sooooo bad its ridiculous!.....What do i do? I really dont think im here type she likes the smaller really femme girls and i thought i was the same way but obviously this is a lil deferent because we r both not that femme. Help me please im lost here and terribly afraid of rejection!meforu
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reader, ImYourProblem +, writes (29 September 2007):
 hey there.. i remember myself being in the exact situation several years ago.. i made the mistake of not making ANY moves. like the post on top says.. KISS HER!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): What should you do? Kiss her! I was in the same situation except I knew she was gay, she didn't know i was too. So we started out friends and I had a crush on her from day 1 but I didn't know how to tell her. One day I just worked up the courage to kiss her. Eventually we became a couple and I couldn't be happier!
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reader, natalie-ann  +, writes (18 September 2007):
im in the same situation as you at the minute.. exactly the same to be honest.. all im doing is playing it cool and ive noticed that shes been giving me the attention..so play cool and see if she flirts notice it.. if she says something flirty reply to it but if you dont like the look on her face just say JOKE! then u;'ll know if its worth it!! gud luck hun
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reader, not telling +, writes (18 September 2007):
Hi my friend is a lez and her mate and her got together. They were kind of in the same situation. I asked my friends how they got together and she said she finally got the gut when they were alone and they both liked it. They've been going of for 2 years now and they both didn't think they were right for each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): Okay, you have two options the first being if you value her friendship don't allow anything to happen,the last thing you need is ther heartbreak of losing a friend as well as partner if it were to end.Your other option would be to tell her, women are very good at reading body language so to be honest she probly already knows that there are feelings there. it sounds like you both enjoy each others company and get along very well. This could be the making of something special or the receipe for disaster.I can't tell you whatto do, this is entirely your descission but I think that you could make a go of it as long as you both understand the consiquences
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