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writes:Now this maybe a over thinking question but just to check.I worked with a girl over the past year and well I didn’t think anything of it but we really got on well and seemed to have a laugh.Anyway now she has got another Job and we don’t work with each other anymore but stay in contact via text.Now the thing is at 26 should I count a 18 Year old girl as a friend? I mean I naturally picky with friends and only have a select through.Also its not on a fancying level as she has got a boyfriend and I just see her as a mate.She is quite mature and not just a gobby teenager that likes getting drunk , also I speak to her about things I can’t with lad mates But year is this too odd .Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys for the answers/reassurance I know it maybe a silly question but I just wanted to check.
And yeah its just generally we just have a laugh via text now and then.
Thank you again
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (12 August 2014):
 It's not weird. It's weird if you over-think it to the point that you make yourself feel like it's weird.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 August 2014):
 Not really. Friends kind of cross age boundaries a lot more than relationships.
And.... as long as the BF doesn't see it as a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2014): As a friend? Not at all. As anything more? It would be. Since you only want friendship, keep it as a work friendship where you do chat about life but you don't go out of your way to talk to each other - then feelings tend to get involved.
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reader, ImissFuturama +, writes (11 August 2014):
 I wouldn't over think this. A good friend is a good friend, regardless of their age or gender. It's not like you're talking to an underage girl, and you're not trying to date her anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2014): If her parents and boyfriend have no problem with it, you're keeping it light; then it's not weird.
Sometimes people may judge age-differences; because sometimes it is weird. If you both can relate on the same level and sex is definitely not an issue? What's your real concern? It might be tough for a wife or a girlfriend to swallow.
If you live in a small-town where neighbors are nosy and/or judgmental; then there will be talk and fish-eyes. If you behave maturely and responsibly yourself, never mind that.
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