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writes:Aunts I need to know if im over exaggerating or not. In 3 hours im going to end things with my boyfriend who I love. This is because he knows my ex boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with his little sister's hot best friend and now my current guy has just let his sister's hot best friend move in with him today.He is normally a WONDERFUL guy but i feel like I mustn't have ever known him at all (its been 6 months)surely he should have at least told me or asked how I felt but NOTHING.I never used to be a jelous person but I dont want to waste my time wondering if they are getting it on every night and my friends are telling me I should tell him how I feel first because I really felt he was THE ONE but im soooo mad and hurt right now that I dont care.Please help.
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (5 December 2008):
tell him how you feel and about your ex if he really loves you he will ask the girl to move out.if he doesn't let him be
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): May be i dont get you really by saying he is moving in with his siter's hot bestfriend cause if i could ask, why is she moving in with him?,and if he is such a good guy to you why didnt he told you atleast that she is moving in, dont end things right away talk to him, let him know how you feel about whats hapening , than if he dont show any remorse than its when you will decide, but make sure you are not hurting yourself over nothing.NB: not all man run for the most beautiful / hot woman on the plannet, some man really have hearts meaning do realy love,love has nothing to do with beauty its a matter of the heart.What if he is one of these good guys? just be carefull so you dont blame yourself at the end of the day.whatever the outcome might be.
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reader, vikkicutie  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 your friends are right you need to talk with him first before you do anything hasty! you need to tell him how you feel about the situation and that you feel uncomfortable with her moving in!
this may be nothing and just a favour to his sister. you do need to talk to him first, if he listens and understands how you feel then he might say to her sorry you cant really stay!
good luck hope goes well!
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Try to tell him how you feel and why you feel like this. Tell him that he has hurt you by not talking to you.
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