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As she's my first gf, is it natural to feel unsure that I'm doing the right thing?

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Question - (27 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi.

Recently have got my first girlfriend, which im really happy about, but the thing is i'm having doubts about the whole thing. i really do like her and want to spend time with her, but im just not sure if im doing the right thing. is this just a sign i don't really want to be with her, or is it just that im scared of the unknown, and that this is all new to me when im a bit old really to be talking about my first girlfriend?

any thoughts or comments would be great, thankyou.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007):

Hi darling,

Yes it is perfectly normal, All different feelings will be going through your head, nerves will take over and you will probably get so nervous at times that your wondering if its worth it, as maybe life seemed alot easier without the added pressure.. Trust me as soon as you start feeling more comfortable and you get to no each others ways love you will relax and wont feel so unsure... HOPE THINGS GO WELL FOR YOU GOOD LUCK TO THE BOTH OF YOU LOVE MANDY xxxxx

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntIt could be nerves or going in to unknown territory. Why not chat to her and explain how you feel. It may make you realise you want to be with her, or you don't.

Just relax and enjoy the relationship. The fun part should be getting to know each other and venturing in to the unknown territories :D

xxxxxxx

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