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writes:I'm 19, been seeing this guy who's 23 for 6 months now..Things may not be official between us yet but I've known him for over a year, we get on extremely well, always communicate, etc.Now I'm a virgin, and he's extremely experienced...I'm nearly 20 and I have been masturbating for a few years now, but lately I get extremely horny when I'm not with him and I start thinking about him, and what us two would do.. We have done other things together, handjob/blowjob etc, and I am ready to take things further, not necessarily sex because I know I'm not ready for it, but is the horniness normal? I've never felt like that before, it only started recently and I think it's because of him but I've even been having sex dreams every night.I pretty much hate it cause I'm always horny when I'm not with him and we see each other about once every 3-4 weeks because we're both busy with uni and work.. and how do I stop myself or control it?Because there may be a time where it happens when we're together and I need to know how to compose myself because I don't want to lose my virginity just for the simple fact that I was extremely horny and forgot my morals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): You know, as I read what you have written, I am thinking that maybe this is actually the right situation for you to finally be a woman and lose your virginity. I don't want you to do it to be immoral or anything like that. I am thinking that you do have a guy who is experienced and you have done hjs and bjs with him. I would not say that doing a bj on him is necessarily maintaining full sexual abstinence, even though you are technically a virgin. I mean, you have had a kind of sex, a manipulative sex with him, even though it is not coital sex. I would say that if your boyfriend and partner is a decent and non-abusive person that it might be the time for the both of you to get it on. It seems to be that you have progressed that far, where it just seems logical now. You say you've done a bj with him. Has he done oral sex on you yet? Sex is a two-way street with both partners giving and taking. Maybe you have reached that point where it is time to take the next step.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 yep the horniness is NORMAL....
you can't really stop yourself but you can masturbate more often to help with that feeling...
and at nearly 20 unless it's against your religion or morals you may want to consider taking that next step with a fellow you like and trust....
there is nothing wrong with you
you are not a bad person
you are a normal healthy woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): It is all perfectly normal to feel extreme desire for someone you are attracted to and see regularly. You say you are not official. Does that mean you are not officially a girlfriend? I would work on that - as you are already intimate together - then you could take that next step. But be prepared that the first time may live up to your fantasies in that first instance.
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