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writes:Cut a long story short, i had arranged marriage, i agreed to it, i'm happy, etc..... n i've gotten to know my partner betta he'z great i've fallen 4 him etc.. etc.... Love him 2 bits but i'm not ready for sex yet, yes i havent done it yet, and just to add haven't kissed anyone as well. So he knows i'm not ready and hasn't forced me or anything he's totally understanding about waiting for the right moment to do it and for having our first kiss (he's da same he hasnt dun it to n neither kissed any1). but i want to do something with him over than sex so my question is what can i do? i'm not sure and confussed, also wen u asnwer my question u'll hav 2 explain ow to do it, u see i'm not gd with that kinda stuff. I want to please him in some way, so wat can i do with him?? thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): hi,
im about to get married too, arranged, very soon, about a week from now. Ive had pervious sexual experiences and i was online to see what was on the web on sex and arranged marriages. To the point, first staying away from sex for too long could make ur man lose interest and feel unappreciated or unloved, so it would be great if you start working out your internal obstacles. I would suggest spending time together naked :) tubs, bed rooms, wherever. This really improves the trust and if you spend enough time sex will come naturally. besides, i don't think nothing would turn a guy on more than a naked day, he he. anyhow i guess i got to this question very late, y'all are probably tearing bedsheets up by now! good luck, and happy married life :)
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 well the first thing you should is find the right time and kiss him, if you love him then give him a kiss that shows you love him. just stay with kissing for awhile and then when you feel more ready, take off some of your clothes, not all of them, but some and kiss. kissing eachother half naked will help you understand what eachothers body is like and then one day things will get really passionet and then what will happen, will happen. i hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): just look at yourself in the mirror and try to ask yourself what would one of your top role models would do in your position and try to think wether it is good for you to.
and pull yourself together (in the nicest posible wayy to be said) :)
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