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female
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30-35,
*inkbees09
writes: I'm friends with this guy, we both are in high school and I think we are just friends but lately I don't know anymore.-I make dirty jokes to him and he smiles and says you wish-His pupils do seem kinda big when we talk-He slaps me gently when I do something dumb or make a dirty joke-Tried to keep it on the down low when he told me I looked nice one day-Says he hates me most of the time, but we ARE friends, I just annoy him often. when he says he hates me he's smiling too.-When we are alone we are pretty nice to each other, but we still tease each other. But when we're around our regular group of friends we're a bit meaner to each other.-I asked him why does he tease me so much and he said its because he likes me-When either of us do good on something we pat the others thigh/leg.What do you think we are to each other? I say just friends who like to....."flirt"
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): At your age... yeah, this is definitely flirting. And I'd say it's totally, completely normal (if that's what you're worried about). Most young, teen-aged boys are still trying to figure themselves out, sexually speaking. Flirting is part of the steps to getting toward developing their sexual identity. IMO, if the flirting continues... yeah, it could grow into something more... but if you let the "something more" happen, it's completely up to you to allow it, know what I mean?Best of luck!
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reader, cute angel +, writes (3 May 2008):
well hun of what you saying i figure that u guys are really good friends and yea may be you guys are in the beginning of something special..but i advice u guys remain the same way in front of your friends i dont get the point of u guys being mean with each other when your friends are around..for right now its just friends but u may never know what happens later!!!
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