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writes:My boyfriend of 2 years is annoying me. Iv been very supportive of his college and work. I asked him to do afew things around christmas now exams are over and he cant as hes to work. In the last few weeks his behaviour has been particularly annoying me. I notice when hes out, he loves chatting to random strangers-like making jokes at counters etc Mainly to women. At night time when hes drunk it gets worse. Its like he loves the attention and i look at him and wonder why is he looking for everyone elses attention except mine u know?Instead of finding him being sociable endearing, it actually bugs me. Plus he makes crude comments to do with shaving and toilet etc and i dont like it but yet he continues coz i think he thinks hes being funny. I have told him before to stop about both but yet he continues. Then last week i was thinking was he acting like this as did he want me to break up with him? Because how does he not know after two years i dont like that stuff when iv told him! Then i wondered were we just not suited and by me putting restrictions on him, am i stiffling his personality? Im confused much. Please help and give your thoughts....thanks
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 If you dont like his personality then it is pretty safe to say you are not well suited. And it does sound a bit like he is trying to wind you up by doing the things you have told him you dont like, maybe with the view to get you to break up with him.
It is up to you to figure out if there is enough in this relationship that makes it worth saving, or if he annoys you that much that you simply dont enjoy his company anymore, therefore you want to move on.
But I can tell you this - if you find these little things annoying now, it is only going to grow and get worse in the future until you literally cant stand him anymore. Keep that in mind before you waste anymore time with someone that you dont actually like that much as a person.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 IF you are unhappy with basic aspects of his personality and you can't accept them, then it's probably best to part ways now...
you cannot love a man's potential
you cannot love someone and expect to change them
if you do not love them where they are then you are not being fair to them.
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